Created to Be His Help Meet

Somewhere over the passing years and changing culture, women have lost their way. This book is written to lead them back home. Regardless of how you began your marriage or how dark and lonely the path that has brought you to where you are now, I want you to know that it is possible today to have a marriage so good and so fulfilling that it can only be explained as a miracle.

It took four years, thousands of hours, many tears, revisions and distractions, but I finally finished my book. I had no idea God had so much to say to us ladies until I began going through God’s Word verse by verse, writing the different sections of Created to Be His Help Meet. Many times as I read a passage, I would say to my husband, “I’m not going to include those verses in my book because if I do the ladies (of any religious group you can think of including my own) will not like my book or promote it.” My dear husband would say to me, “If God thought it was important enough to inspire it as part of his Word to us, then you should include it.” And so I would cringe and add one more controversial subject after another.

So in obedience with Titus 2, where God commands the aged women to teach the younger women, I have obeyed and given you the very best I can do — 27 chapters, 296 pages, including letters from my readers, recounting counseling sessions, wisdom gleaned from my daughters, my own very personal stories, and, of course, the Word of God. It includes subjects as varied as planning meals to answering extremely intimate questions.

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Somewhere over the passing years and changing culture, women have lost their way. This book is written to lead them back home. Regardless of how you began your marriage or how dark and lonely the path that has brought you to where you are now, I want you to know that it is possible today to have a marriage so good and so fulfilling that it can only be explained as a miracle.

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Testimonials

"Created To Be His Help Meet showed me the changes I needed to make in my life that ultimately led my husband to Christ. Created To Be His Help Meet is simply the best book I've read in conjunction with the Bible on being a Godly wife."

~ Candace Cameron Bure, Actress, Author & Speaker, Growing in God Ministries

“When I received your book “Created To Be His Help Meet”, I literally devoured it! I learned much on how to be a good help meet and about our Christian walk in general. We learned of a couple who separated, the wife was advised to give her husband her terms and basically live without him. I gave her a copy of your book, (she agreed she'd like to read it, having heard of it in the past). I called her one morning and she was an unbelievably changed person! She was ready to fight for her husband and love him. She wants him back desperately! She's realized how wrong she has been and is determined to change. From what ( she's said) her husband is definitely a Mr. Steady, it sounds like he does want things to work out. I am so thankful for God's intervention and the change in her heart! It amazes me to think that we so often brush off what God says, thinking we have better ideas.”

~Laura

“Thank you for sharing your life and heart in “Created to be His Help Meet”. Who would have guessed that a trip to the library could totally transform and ignite your marriage? I couldn’t wait to read your book. Instantly I started following your advice. My husband and I have been married for 12 years and had a great relationship, but now it is absolutely incredible.”

~ H.C.

“I am writing to thank you for your book “Created To Be His Help Meet.” I did not think I needed it because we have a good marriage. Well, I did not realize what I was in for in reading your book and how the Lord would deal with my heart and show me how I was in rebellion to my husband’s authority and how selfish I really was. My husband is elated and is daily praising me as the new wife that he is so pleased with I also had realized that I was resisting him in the sexual area of our relationship, but did not know what to do about it, the Lord did indeed direct me through your book. My husband is a “Command Man”. In fact, he said he is going to command all the men at church to get this book for their wives! Ha! Ha! He made this comment without knowing that you wrote anything about a “Mr. Command Man”. I surely wish I had put these Biblical principles into practice years ago.”

~C.K.

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Details

Publication Date:
First Printing - December 2004
Second Printing - March 2005
Third Printing (revised) - May 2005
Fourth Printing - September 2005
Fifth Printing - December 2005
Sixth Printing - September 2006
Seventh Printing - April 2007
Eighth Printing - May 2008

Other Formats

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